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A Generation of Wimps?

24 July 2012

We asked our readers for their opinions on sportsmanship and the 2012 Olympics.

Boys playing soccer (AP Images)

Should every child who competes in sports get a prize? It depends on what prize they're playing for.

Renato Martins Dornelas (inset photo), 19, from Contagem, Minas Gerais, Brazil:

A lot of people complain about today's culture of “everyone's a winner,” particularly when it comes to youth sports. They say we're raising a generation of wimps who don't know how to lose when we give every child a trophy or a ribbon, no matter how unskilled they are.

I guess I come down somewhere in the middle on this. I have no problem keeping score even at the youngest levels of competition, but I also don't think it's a bad thing for a six-year-old to walk away with a ribbon at the end of the season as an acknowledgment of his or her hard work and participation.

When I was in sixth grade, my school had a very simple competition. We had soccer, volleyball, and some chess matches. I decided to sign up for all three, focusing on my own prize: the opportunity to shout “I beat you!”

I know it sounds mean, but I really wanted to show some friends that I wasn't only capable of getting good grades and solving math problems. I wanted to show I could run faster, jump higher, and scream louder. Sports helped my self-esteem.

Above: Young boys battle for the ball during a soccer game in Havre, Montana.